Emotions That Hit Your Japanese Girlfriend When She Finds Out That Your Ex Is Beautiful

For any girl, a boyfriend's ex is someone that you worry about regardless. But when you find out she is beautiful, you start to imagine all sorts of things, and your emotions become complicated.

1. She feels kind of disappointed: “So he's only interested in pretty girls ...”

Girls can feel depressed when they think you are more interested in looks than personality.

2. She feels threatened: “What if they get back together?”

Some girls can lose confidence in their relationship with you.

3. She worries about why they broke up: “Why would he break up with someone so pretty ...?”

It can make a girl worry about the things that might make you lose interest in a relationship.

4. She becomes insecure: “Am I really good enough for him?”

If you want her to feel secure, try telling her all the things that you believe make her a wonderful girlfriend to you.

5. She becomes suspicious: “Maybe he’s just playing me?”

Some girls end up going into full-on negativity. For example, she might suddenly ask you questions like, “Have you been in contact with your old girlfriend?” There’s a good chance she’s thinking you might be cheating on her.

6. She doesn’t worry about it, and believes in your love: “I’m me, and she’s her.”

Some girls can rationally separate the past from the present, and see it as just that: the past.

7. She actually feels relieved: “Well, I’m glad to know he’s not into ugly girls at least.”

Some girls feel comforted that their man has good taste. Still, there’s no guarantee she won’t feel jealous.

8. She’s appalled at how simple men can be: “Men are so easy to figure out!”

Don’t try to defend your ex by saying, “She’s not just a pretty face.” It’s better to man up and say, “Well, I was pretty simple-minded back then.” That way you’ll avoid making a bad impression.

9. She actually gains confidence: “So it means that I’m even more beautiful, right?”

Some girls can think positively, and decide that they are even more attractive: “I’m more gorgeous, aren’t I?!”