Tips for Men When Preparing for Making Love with a Japanese Girl

In a long-term relationship, men can often get too comfortable and start being lazy. However, getting too comfortable and putting in less effort could be a turnoff for your Japanese girl. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or not, a little bit of prep before making love can definitely help with how she feels about you and the relationship. We surveyed our female readers to bring men 9 tips for preparing for making love so they won’t disappoint their woman.

1. Clip your finger nails.

“It really hurts when he fingers me with unclipped finger nails.” The vagina is extremely delicate, so if you are going to finger her, make sure your fingernails are cut. Unkempt fingernails could also signal to her that you’re dirty or that you don’t take care of yourself. To avoid making this kind of poor impression, make sure to keep your hands washed.

2. Brush your teeth.

“His breath was horrid, I stiffened up immediately.” Making love usually starts with a kiss, so take care of your oral hygiene to prevent turning her off right from the beginning. If you don’t have time to brush your teeth, use some dental gum or breath mints before you two hit the bedroom.

3. Put on a little cologne.

“I almost fainted when he hugged me. He had terrible body odor.” Just a quick spray of cologne can make a difference. Of course, cologne alone won’t do it—daily showering and using soap are essential. To stay fresh, don’t forget to put on some deodorant or antiperspirant after showering.

4. Trim some of your body hair.

“I just don’t find it a turn-on if he’s hairy all over his chest and stomach.” Some women are turned off by too much body hair, so it might be best to trim it. However, some women like the rugged look and don’t mind the hair. Since it really depends on the woman, make sure you know what her preferences are.

5. Shave your stubbles.

“It hurts, especially when he goes down on me, and that’s when I lose focus.” Women don’t want your stubbles anywhere near their vagina, because it can be extremely painful. Make sure you shave off your stubbles and are clean and smooth.

6. Keep a condom by the bed or somewhere within easy reach.

“It’s frustrating when we need to pause everything just so he can rummage through his closet to find one.” No one likes to be interrupted during a heated session, so always be prepared. Store condoms in your bedside drawer for easy access.

7. Keep some water by the bed.

“I remember a time we were at a motel and we ran out of water to drink so we had to have sex while being super thirsty. It was a terrible experience.” It’s important to stay properly hydrated, even before making love. Next time you take her out on a date, remember to carry a bottle of water with you.

8. Go to the bathroom.

“I once had a guy who locked himself up in the bathroom for 5 minutes, just when things were getting heated.” If you can, go to the bathroom before making love so you don’t have to interrupt the fun. If you have a sensitive stomach, carry some medication with you so you’re prepared.

9. Practice how to take her bra off.

“It took him forever to get it off; it was so awkward.” Taking too long fumbling around trying to unhook her bra will definitely kill the mood of foreplay. Don’t attempt to do this with one hand just to impress her, as it may backfire. If you’re not used to it, play it safe and use both hands so you can do it quickly and accurately.