What Makes a Japanese Girl Fall in love Again ?

You’ve been together for a long time and your relationship has settled down so much, you act like husband and wife. You often say that you “feel safe” with your partner but truth be told, there are times that you think, “We’re stuck in a rut and this is getting boring.” So this time we’ve collected the voices of Japanese women answering the question, “What makes a Japanese girl “fall in love again” with a guy she has been going out with for a long time?”

1. Your boyfriend always wears contacts, but then there’s that moment when he puts on a pair of glasses.

We’ve received a lot of warm comments describing these moments, when your boyfriend who usually wears contacts shows up one day wearing glasses: “It felt so new and thrilling!” “I kept staring at him, wondering if this was what he used to look like.”

2. That moment you see him in his work clothes, like in a suit or a doctor’s coat.

Seeing your man in a suit, a white coat, or other work outfit really makes an impression: “He looks different, and that’s cool.” “He seems more dependable than usual.”

3. When a weakness that he’s been hiding – like a fear of heights, or sensitivity to hot food – is suddenly revealed.

It surprises you that he was embarrassed about something like that, but more often than not, the reaction is positive: “It makes me smile, seeing this adorable side of him.” “It makes me want to give him a big hug.”

4. When you find out that he has a hidden talent, like playing the piano.

When you find out your man has a skill you never expected, “not only is it a surprise, but it makes you admire him even more.” It honestly makes women “re-evaluate their boyfriends.”

5. He’s been secretly practicing – and then unveils – some lavish home cooking.

You’ve never even seen him pick up a knife, but when you see him cooking up a storm, it just melts your heart.

6. When he shows you how reliable he can be while on vacation.

“Usually he can’t even decide what to order off the menu, but it was amazing how resolute he was when making important decisions.” “When the chips were down, he was someone you could rely on.” Those are the moments that can make you fall in love with him all over again.

7. When you realize that his colleagues respect and acknowledge him for his abilities.

“His stock really rose when I found out how much his friends and colleagues admire him.” This can really help you see your boyfriend in a different light.

8. When he talks about how proud he is of you with his friends.

“I was so touched to know that he thinks of me in that way.” Women speak fondly about moments like these.