Moments When Girls Feel Disappointed Because Their Boyfriend Looks like a Loser

Guys always try to look good in front of their Japanese girlfriend, but there are also times they unintentionally do something that makes them look like a loser. You wouldn’t want your girlfriend to feel less attracted to you because of it! This time, we surveyed Japanese girls to introduce “moments they feel disappointed because their boyfriend looks like a loser.”

1. When his fly is fully open.

“I feel embarrassed for him.” Some women really cannot stand it when this happens. On one hand, they feel sorry for their boyfriend, and on the other hand, they feel embarrassed themselves that they had to witness it. It’s good to get in the habit of checking your fly before meeting your girlfriend.

2. When he’s bullied by a lout and he gets submissive and apologizes.

“Be a man and stand up for yourself.” Some women do little to hide their irritation when their boyfriend is not man enough. Nonetheless, there are also times when apologizing is a better choice to keep your girlfriend safe. When this happens, be a gentleman and tell her, “I’m sorry if you got scared.”

3. When he runs away from cockroaches and insects because he’s scared of them.

“He’s so not dependable if he’s scared of bugs.” Women tend to believe that guys know how to deal with insects, so they feel disappointed when they discover their boyfriend is just as scared of insects as they are. It’s okay if you cannot get rid of the bug for your girlfriend, but try your best not to run away.

4. When he gets drunk and starts bothering other women

“That’s the worst. As his girlfriend, I just can’t stand it.” Most women have zero tolerance for this kind of behavior. You already don’t look your best when you’re smashed, and your girlfriend will have none of it if you start to hit on other women in this state. If you are a lightweight, try not to drink too much when you are in her company.

5. When he tucks his top into his pajama pants before going to sleep.

“That’s really not fashionable. It’s a big turn-off because my boyfriend is usually stylish.” Some women get turned off when their boyfriend does not look cool. It’s not easy to get out of your habit, but you should make an effort to look nice in front of your girlfriend. You can always wait until you get into bed to tuck in your pajama shirt.

6. When he tears up after his senior or a teacher gets mad at him.

“Men shouldn’t cry about these kinds of things.” This is a big turn-off for some women. Women don’t always like to see guys cry, especially if it’s because someone got mad at you. Don’t tear up unless it’s tears of happiness or regret.

7. When he says he’s a “regular,” but people at the store don’t recognize him.

“Wow, he’s so deluded.” Women laugh sarcastically at this kind of awkward situation. It’s understandable that you want to show your girlfriend you have contacts. But it’s best not to exaggerate the reality, unless you are actually a “regular” and personally know the people who work there.

8. When he suddenly goes silent while travelling overseas because he doesn’t know how to ask for directions.

“I don’t feel confident about continuing this relationship.” Being unreliable while travelling can affect the future of your relationship. If you feel helpless in an unfamiliar country, you are not the only one. Your girlfriend probably feels the same way. But she needs you to do your best to communicate, even if you are not good with languages.