Rhis Things Japanese Girls Secretly Wish for in Bed

Japanese girls can get into sex as much as men do, but often they feel too shy to open up about their preferences. We surveyed our female readers to bring you 8 things women secretly wish for in bed.

1. Spending more time making out before foreplay

“For women, holding hands and hugging each other is part of sex.” Some women also take more time to warm up and feel aroused, so hugging and touching will help her feel comfortable. It might be best to watch a romance movie while holding each other, and then start the foreplay after the movie is over.

2. Talking rough

“It really turns me on when he talks to me in a more aggressive way.” Some women have trouble opening up about it, but they actually like more rough sex. Try and gauge her reaction when you do it, though. If she pulls away in fear it’s probably a good indication that she’s not enjoying it.

3. Soft-core fetishes like blindfolds

“I like it because I feel more sensitive all around.” Some girls are afraid to request this because they don’t want to come off as having “weird” fetishes. Next time, try jokingly asking your girl if she’s interested in using a tie as a blindfold. If she shows interest then it’s worth trying it out.

4. Using a light, steady finger motion when fingering

“It’s actually harder to cum when he does it roughly.” Some women may enjoy being touched roughly, but not all women are the same. Start gently moving your fingers and ask her how much she wants you to increase the pressure so you can gauge the right amount.

5. Using vibrators and toys

“There’s no shame in using toys and vibrators.” Even if your skills may be lacking, some women will prefer that you use some toys to help her reach climax. Don’t let ego get in your way—if she’s having trouble reaching climax, ask if she’s interested in using a sex toy next time.

6. Continue giving her oral until she orgasms

“I feel too selfish, so I hesitate bringing it up.” Many women are left unsatisfied when the guy stops giving her oral before she climaxes. It’s best to ask her if she likes to orgasm from oral.

7. Slapping her butt when doing it from behind

“I actually like it when he does that.” Some women secretly like a little rough sex. Next time you’re having sex with her try slapping her butt lightly and ask her if you can slap her harder. If she gives you the “OK” then you can go a little more rough.

8. Letting her know when it feels good and when you’re going to cum

“It catches me off guard when he cums without any warning, and it makes me feel like he doesn’t care about me.” It’s good to reassure her that you’re feeling good. Not only will this relax her, but it will encourage her to start talking more during sex too, and may lead to some dirty talk.